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#1 msViolet16

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Posted 22 January 2020 - 08:36 AM

Hi guys i just wanna ask how did you cope up after your loss? not to be insensitive but i want to know how because i find it so hard. like wala man lang ako naitago na any part mula sa kanya kasi nagpanic ako like di ko alam ang gagawin. it was so devastating na wala man lang matingnan or mapuntahan after the loss. hindi ko alam ang gagawin. please share your thoughts and experiences thanks

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Posted 23 January 2020 - 12:13 PM

I feel the same..it’s been a week pa lang, I kept on crying and crying.. iniisip ko shouldve kept bb instead. 7 weeks pregnant pa lang pero ang hirap. Ang sakit sa feeling nakaka overwhelm. 🥺 dami kong what ifs.. di pa rin ako maka cope up sa loss.

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Posted 24 January 2020 - 02:02 AM

what did u do with the embryo, not to be insensitive, i just wanna know

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Posted 24 January 2020 - 01:00 PM

Me too. I just finished the procedure yesterday at sobrang sakit. Lagi akong naiiyak pati partner ko. Hindi niya alam 'yung ginawa ko akala niya miscarriage lang. Nung nakita ko siyang nalungkot at naiyak, sobrang nagsisi ako. Pero ayun na eh. I've decided na gawin 'yun. Now, I'm trying to heal tsaka still working on sa pagtuloy tuloy na paglabas ng dugo ko para hindi ako mainfection. He wanted to bring me sa hospital to check tsaka para maraspa kung in case na kelangan kaso natatakot ako. Sabi ko 'wag kasi for sure pags-stayin ako dun ng more than 1 day eh kelangan ko pumasok. Sana lang 'di niya mahalata dun na parang takot akong magpahospital. Ang sakit sakit pero nangyari na. Kelangan lang maging matatag.

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Posted 24 January 2020 - 09:12 PM

how to cope up Ms. Violet? its not easy specailly emotionally. ACCEPTANCE, REPENT, and ask for FORGIVENESS. i guess whats haunting us is our guilt for what we did to our own child. did mine last Dec 18, 2019, and nakailang PT na ako and still negative na siya. even 13days after procedure.

just pray and ask for forgiveness.

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Posted 27 January 2020 - 05:25 PM

one week after the procedure but the pain is still here. i’ll never move on. 1 week after day 3 and light bleeding already. haven’t done any tests yet, probably do some PT on saturday. hope everything will be fine.

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Posted 12 May 2020 - 11:58 AM

View Postdeepot, on 24 January 2020 - 09:12 PM, said:

how to cope up Ms. Violet? its not easy specailly emotionally. ACCEPTANCE, REPENT, and ask for FORGIVENESS. i guess whats haunting us is our guilt for what we did to our own child. did mine last Dec 18, 2019, and nakailang PT na ako and still negative na siya. even 13days after procedure.

just pray and ask for forgiveness.

saan simbahan ka po nangumpisal at pano nagin penance? inexcommunicate ka po ba ?




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