Hi Everyone,
I would just like to share my experience here lalo na sa mga gaya ko na wala ding idea kung anu gagawin nung una, confused and scared, walang mapagshare-an ng fears and thoughts. I hope sharing my experience would help.
Around July 14-16 when my fiance and I had intercourse, at that time I forgot that I was ovulating and hinayaan ko sya to release inside me without protection. We've been doing it since 2012, calendar method and withdrawal lang, but this time we became careless. A week before my expected period I started to feel the usual symptoms, soreness of breasts, bruises, lower back pain, cramps on lower abdomen. I thought magkakaperiod lang ako.
- July 31-Aug. 4 - eto dapat yung expected period ko. I'm starting to get worried, though the longest that I've been delayed was 12 days. The symptoms are still there and mejo kakaiba na yung cramps than the usual.
- Aug. 7 - I decided to take pregnancy test. It was negative at that time so mejo nakalma ako.
- Aug. 9 - I saw spotting in my underwear, light pink. I thought yun na yung hinihintay ko, but I was skeptical. It's not usually light pink eh. Days passed pero walang kasunod na blood yung spotting so lalo ako kinabahan.
- Aug. 14 - I decided to check again, nag PT ulit ako, and this time it's positive. I was so shocked, in denial and didn't know what to do. I can't be pregnant yet since we are getting married in a few months. I decided right away to not continue the pregnancy habang embryo pa lang at wala pang heartbeat.
- Aug. 15 - nagtest ulit ako, positive talaga. I searched the web what to do. Anu yung safest and most reliable method to end early pregnancy. Nakita ko yung site ni Ms. Ella and contacted the numbers. Nagreply naman si Ms. Ella within 15mins. She asked me ilang months preggy, and based on the timeline I think I was at 2-4 weeks at that time. I chose Mife kit (may kasama na yan na cyto) kasi based on my research combination of mife and miso is the most effective option. Mifepristone stops the production of progesterone which is a hormone that is needed in the development of the baby, pag wala or kulang ang progesterone the development of the baby will stop. Misoprostol or most commonly known as Cytotec naman is usually used for treatment of ulcer or induce labor, I've read somewhere na pinapainom din yun sa mga naglelabor na buntis if hirap sila ilabas ang bata. So these medicines are safe for us to take.
- Aug. 16 - I paid to Ms. Ella and sent her the proof of payment via fb account.
- Aug. 17 - Ms. Ella gave me the tracking number of my shipment, pero hindi pa lalabas agad yan sa system if you check, I think it took 2 days bago lumabas yung status ng delivery sa kin
- Aug. 20 - I received the instructions via fb
- Aug. 21 - Dumating yung gamot pero hindi ko pa mapickup since I was out of town
- Aug. 23 - I started the Day 1 procedure. Pretty normal naman, walang masakit or anything
- Aug. 24 - Day 2 procedure, sa gabi lang pwede gawin. Sobrang sakit. I was sweating kahit airconditioned ang room. Can't do anything about the pain kailangan lang talaga tiisin.
- Aug. 25 - around 4AM, I released lots of blood clots. Pain level is at 9/10, can't say na 10 kasi feeling ko mas masakit pa din manganak kesa dun. Finally, after releasing the blood clots, I fell asleep. But I woke up at 6AM kasi masakit pa din lower back and abdomen, and I had to dispose the blood clots. I wore adult diaper at that time kasi I have no idea how much blood I will lose. Aside from blood clots meron din lumabas sa kin na parang liver na merong nakakabit na clear sac with clear fluid inside. I think yun yung embryo and yung parang liver was the placenta.
- Aug. 26-Sept. 3 - normal amount of bleeding, parang may period lang. all in all my bleeding lasted for 11 days. I'm 31 years old with an active lifestyle. depende kasi sa katawan how long the bleeding will last.
- Sept. 4 up to present - No intercourse
- Sept. 23 and as of writing - I have my normal period.
Some other info/tips that I want to share:
1. You can't expect Ms. Ella to answer you right away, she has other stuff going din. She has a life of her own. I know that you're scared and confused lalo kapag hindi nagrereply agad si Ms. Ella, but one thing that I can assure you based on my experience is that, she is legit, safe and effective yung mga gamot na binibigay nya.
2. Follow the instructions that she will give you. I know mahirap sundin lahat but do your best to follow all the steps para effective and hindi magfail. You don't want to waste your money or undergo the same procedure and pain again, so need sundin lahat.
3. Same as the other girls here who value their privacy, wala din po akong fb account, matagal na nakadeactivate and messenger na lang ang gumagana. Ms. Ella needs your fb account for her safety as well cause you know, hindi pa legal here sa PH yung mga gamot but sa ibang bansa ginagamit na talaga sya. So if walang fb pero may messenger you may send valid id to her for legit check. Kaya mejo natagalan din yung pagsend sa kin ng instructions.
4. Reading in this forum helped me with my worries and anxiety. Marami nagsheshare din ng experiences nila and somehow it comforted me. Your experiences helped me with this situation so I'm doing the same.
I hope makatulong sa inyo. Please know that you are not alone, there are millions of women who had the same situation as you are right now. Pray for safety and forgiveness as well.