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[quote name="Call center agent" post="706" timestamp="1396087986"] [color=#333333][font=Helvetica][size=3]I wanted to post this to help people considering this procedure who, like me, are terrified, I am 29 I found out I was pregnant on the December 2013. My boyfriend and I took our time making a decision. We both knew what we wanted to do. Eventually, when I calculated I'd be about 13 weeks, I realised I had to get things moving. I opted for a medical procedure rather than surgical. I arranged an order of the pills to Ms Ella (09152858517, fb: pinky Cytotec topix) who provided me with a Cytotec kit. I asked her various questions. When I took the first 2 pills I felt no negative [/size][/font][/color][font=Helvetica][size=3][u]side effects[/u][/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3] like others advise. No cramps, no bleeding. My boyfriend came and stayed with me during the whole time. Ms Ella text-ed me and told me what would happen from start to finish and what to expect. She was honest with me and told me the pain has been described as unbearable.Then I inserted 2 pills again into my vagina to continue the process. I was then instructed to lay [/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3][u]on the bed [/u][/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3]for the whole procedure. Having been fortunate and never experienced too much pains, I didn't really know what to expect. For the few hour of laying in the bed, I had VERY mild cramps. I did feel like I was leaking slightly, but nothing came out. After about 1 hour 15 mins I felt like I was going to have a serious bout of diarrhea so ran to the toilet. No diarrhea - a bit of wee. By this time, it was about 9:45pm (having been taken the tablets at 5:.00pm). I was able to called Ms Ella about relatively pain free. There was the occasional sharp pain in my abdomen. For a few hours nothing had happened except I had passed blood in my wee a few times, but no clots. I was beginning to get concerned it wasn't working due to the no clots/no pain. After the last pills [/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3]I stood up, and that's when it all happened. Unfortunately, I wasn't at the toilet and it's so difficult to describe, it felt like my insides were falling out - not painful - but constant slimy things falling out of me. Fortunately I had quite an absorbent [/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3][u]sanitary pad [/u][/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3]on and I managed to make it to the toilet. This was the worst part of all. The fetus had separated from other parts (sorry I am not most technical, I never really queried it all since I have quite a weak stomach, I believe it was mostly [/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3][u]placenta [/u][/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3]and afterbirth) and the only piece of advice I would give is NOT TO LOOK. It is clear what it is, a curled up baby with visible limbs and a dot where the eye would be.. and my heart broke. I went cold and shaky and called for my boyfriend and we immediately dialed Ms Ella's number again and informing me I had passed it all and ordered me to rest in the bed for an hour. [/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3]This hour was the worst part of the whole experience. So many conflicting emotions and the image of my child will live with me forever, though I don't doubt I made the best choice, I would most certainly ensure I hadn't looked had I known this previously. I spent the hour crying, from shock and upset and guilt. My boyfriend was an amazing support so I would certainly recommend taking somebody with you rather than going through it alone. [/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3]After less than 2 weeks, when my bleeding stoped I went to the clinic to have an ultrasound the O.b judged the abortion to me complete (I just told her that I had a miscarriage), she gave me an antibiotic up my bum and some antibiotics [/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3][u]to start taking [/u][/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3]the next morning (today) and sent me on my way. Lucky that the O.b didn't question me that much. [/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3]Right now, I don't know how I feel. Physically, I feel fine, if not then slightly tired. But emotionally I feel slightly numb, like I haven't really accepted it and it doesn't seem real, but it's still early and time will tell. [/size][/font][font=Helvetica][size=3]I just wanted to share my experience, not really for the emotional side but for the physical side. I understand everybody's experience is different, but I have only ever seen horror stories with bearable pain and wanted you to know it's NOT like that for everybody. [/size][/font] [font=Helvetica][size=3]Good luck to anybody considering this as a guide![/size][/font][/quote]